If you are new to this, you probably tell yourself that you need to read a bit more before taking action. Whatever your excuse; to really understand you must take action, feel the reaction and learn from the rejection.
 
Here are 6 things you can take action on right now.

 

1. List Your Passion

Many people in this world lack some sort of passion in their life. The world has revolved where time is limited in our daily life where passion is almost forgotten. Passionate people are very attractive, not just with women because they resinate and inspires us.

 

Make a list of what you like to do, and why. For example “I love sky diving, because it gives me that freedom and peace of mind that nothing else in this world matter, even if it’s for 20 seconds it feels like eternity”.

 

2. Get In Shape

If you are currently not exercising, then start now. Exercise will not only transform your body into something more attractive, but will also build your confidence and gets you energised.

 

This one of the attraction qualities that requires hard work and dedication, but something that is within your control to take action now.

 

Join a gym to get the momentum going, and if you have the money get a trainer for at least the first month to get the flow, motivation and habit going.

 

3. Get the Right Clothes

Just like exercising, getting a new outfit alone is not going to get you girls but it’s an important part of attraction.

 

Most guys are oblivious to their fashion sense, that they don’t wear for style but confort. Women are not attracted to a guy wearing the latest fashion, but something that looks good and fits the body and the occasion.

 

An important factor is to dress for the occasion. If you are going out to a club, don’t wear any sports gear or similar type apparel instead opt for something that more appropriate like leather shoes, a nice pair of fitting slack or jeans.

 

It should resemble part of your personality and the type of girl you want to attract.

 

Upgrading your wardrobe doesn’t have to be expensive, it’s not the brand that matters it’s the fit and style.
 

4. Plan Your Future

One of the question that always come up during an interaction is “What do you do for work?”. Understanding where you are going with life is so important in attraction. Women are attracted to a man who knows what he wants or has a plan for the future. It’s not about having a career that earns you the six figures, but having a plan to move forward to a bigger picture in the future.

 

A girl will be attracted to a medical student as the potential in the future is he will become a doctor. But if you currently working, the next step is where would you like to see yourself in the future. There is nothing wrong if your a taxi driver, if you have a future plan in progress of owning a fleet or your own business. Be ambitious and plan it, so it doesn’t sound like a dream. Dreams are ideas with no action.

 

Make a plan of where you are now and where you like to be in 5 or 10 years.
 

5. Eye Contact

Confidence isn’t something that will develop overnight, but there are a few steps that can be taken to get things moving quickly.

 

Eye contact is the easiest way to gain confidence, and at the same time appear more confident. Every time you meet a stranger look them directly in the eyes.

 

You will be astonished at how quickly it becomes a habit and the effect it has on people. Beautiful woman will assume that you have something they want, because you are willing to face them directly on.
 

6. Talk to Strangers

From early childhood, our parents told us not to talk to strangers for safety reasons. But that same reason is holding some of us back in being sociable.

 

Talking to strangers helps build you conversation skills and you may learn something that you may not know. For example: I met an architect while waiting for the tram and he told me being an architect is more than just drawing, it’s about the emotional ride through the process and with this knowledge, I was able to use this in a conversation to display intelligence.

 

Start off with talking to the store sales person when putting together your new clothes, find out what they love about their work and why?

 

Talking to random people will also bring you out of your comfort zone.

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