So, you might have a few beliefs on why you can’t attract women or you may find some of your techniques are not working as expected. Sure, I’ve watched a lot of chick flicks thinking I have it all figured out but here are some myths that you should be aware of to be able to put your excuses to bed.

 

Myth# 1 The Game doesn’t exist or I don’t want to play

I’ve heard this a few times and you know what type of guys tells me this? “Whiners!”. By that I mean guys who can’t hack life in general. Always think the world should be fair. There are guys out there that think “I want a woman who likes me.. for me”. Fortunately there’s one woman out there for you that likes you just the way you are and you call her “mother”.

 

Fact: The game is something unavoidable by men and women. You act differently to the women you are attracted to or pretending you’re not interested. Either way you are still playing.

 

Myth # 2 Women are bitches

“Oh my god, that girl just told me to go away. She is such a bitch”. Rejection hurts, as we think of it as a failure in ourselves, which can damage our self-esteem no doubt.

 

Fact: Most women are not bitchy, but may sometimes have their bitch shield up to protect themselves from guys talking to them. Why you might ask?

 

Girls get approached quite a lot, especially in an area that promotes interaction like a bar or clubs. When she rejects a guy it’s not because of the guy himself but the way he had approached her.

 

Women could also throw a sparkle of bitchiness to test him. All women want a confident guy, a protector and not a guy who will quiver in fear.

 

But they maybe some women who are bitchy because something in their past made them a sourpuss.

 

Myth # 3 You’re not good looking
This is the myth of all myths. Looks do play a little part in attraction but looks don’t hold its own merit.

 

Fact: I’m not going to lie, if you are good looking it will add a few seconds to the initially interaction during the approach but then the it’s about the context in the conversation, the body language, and confident that will win a woman over.

 

Myth #4 Limited number of available women

Partly true if you are one of those guys who thinks meeting women is only through friends. It’s like saying there is only limited of money that can be made.

 

Fact: Opportunities exist everywhere, on the way to work, back from work, going to the grocery store. In fact if you don’t want to get out of your house, then just go online. Making this as an excuse doesn’t make sense.

 

Myth #5 Being interested is interesting

Who really made this up? It sounds like advice giving by a woman. I use to believe this but it only landed me in the friend zone. The logic for this is, if I pretend to listen to her, she would find me comforting and that comfort will grow into love. The truth is that comfort will turn you into her new girlfriend.

 

Fact: Being interested in everything she does, doesn’t build attraction. Women like men who are challenging. Someone who shows value and not impress by the meaningless things she says. Remember she should be interested in you for her to be attracted to you.

 

Myth #6 Just Be a Nice Guy

Same as “Being interested is interesting”

 

Myth #7 Girls know what they want.

She may say “I want someone who is tall, dark and handsome”, yet they go out with someone totally opposite.

 

Fact: Why? Most girls think they know what they want, but in reality it is what ever triggers their good emotion that attracts them. Learn from Steve Jobs. He said “You can’t just ask customers what they want and then try to give that to them. By the time you get it built, they’ll want something new.”

 

 

 

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