You should be relieved to know that approaching a beautiful woman, even a 10 on the scale of hotness, is not really about looks, money or even charm. Just like happiness, approaching a gorgeous woman and making a great impression is all a “state of mind.”   State of Mind Vs Appearance You’ve probably had this problem before. You’ve read attraction forum theory and know what you should be saying. However, when you actually do [...]

Everyone has a history that makes them take steps to learn how to be better with women, from being curious about the methods, to heart breaks that left them mentally crippled. During my post break up, I had felt a bit lost and thought that learning the system would be the way out. It was a way forward and I noticed the changes in me, but the progression was slow and along the journey I [...]

If you are new to this, you probably tell yourself that you need to read a bit more before taking action. Whatever your excuse; to really understand you must take action, feel the reaction and learn from the rejection.   Here are 6 things you can take action on right now.   1. List Your Passion Many people in this world lack some sort of passion in their life. The world has revolved where time [...]

So, you want to talk to a girl, but afraid of rejection because of lame pick up lines just keeps getting you rejected and want to try a different angle? Learn the art of opening by starting off with the basic overview.   1. Opening is a Conversation Starter Everyone has heard the term “Pick Up lines” which is a way to start a conversation with attractive women. The problem with pick up lines is [...]

  So, you might have a few beliefs on why you can’t attract women or you may find some of your techniques are not working as expected. Sure, I’ve watched a lot of chick flicks thinking I have it all figured out but here are some myths that you should be aware of to be able to put your excuses to bed.   Myth# 1 The Game doesn’t exist or I don’t want to play [...]

Learning from our mistakes is how we learn in life, but sometimes we don’t realize the mistakes we make if we can’t identify them. Below are the common mistakes that I’ve seen and personally made myself. Being aware of my action and behavior that may mimic any of the mistakes listed was the first key step to improvement with women.   1. Being a Nice Guy: “But I’m a Nice Guy” I’m naturally a nice [...]

To be good with women, it’s not just about things you say to charm them, but it’s about the whole package that is in front of them, the way you talk, the way you walk, the way you view life and yourself.   Women often say they want a man with the complete package, someone who has money with solid abs, but is caring etc. Basically what they are saying is someone who has their [...]

Many guys think getting the girls number is the ultimate success, but I’m here to burst your bubble. Why not the number? We live in a new world of technology and with caller ID  (most likely invented by an annoyed woman) our calls can now be screened, which gives her the ability to choose to ignore you. Acquiring the number is irrelevant as there are other avenues to contact her. There are however, some exceptions. [...]

“Can I buy you a drink?” Now it is a very common line in bars/clubs and somehow it has been hard wired into our brain to think that it is courtship 101. Then Why Do It? Three words “Men Are Whipped!” If you believe in the bible, Adam was already whipped when God created him. He didn’t honour the “bro before hoes” code by choosing Eve when he took a bite from the forbidden apple. [...]

Doesn’t it often seem like some people are born natural storytellers, while others could have the most dramatic events happen to them and you’d be yawning 30 seconds after they started talking about it? Maybe we have a friend who can tell the story of going down to get his mail and make it sound exciting, but find ourselves trapped by the water-cooler at work listening to the secretary drone on about her vacation to [...]